The Thing

The thing that keeps us close
Was the thing I hated the most
But has become one of my favourite things
Now it's the thing that keeping us apart
But I still have an intoxicating thing with a bite
And a drugging thing with a listen
Alas I still can't figure out the thing between us now
Is it my thing that bothers?
Or your thing that smothers?
Or is there nothing at all?